When we have our first conversation, please do not make it feel like an interview for admission into the CIA. I understand you want to know about my goals and aspirations, and you possibly want to share yours as well, but sometimes it goes too far. When figures of income and car choice come into play, I feel like you have a pen and clipboard in front of you. I guess you do this because in your simple minds you see us getting married based off seeing a few pictures, or even glancing at me from across a dimly lit room. Don't think. Just go with the flow. Stay away from questions that have to do with my religious beliefs. We all know that is personal, so it's not a good thing to throw into the first conversation you have with me or anybody else. Do not be so rigid. Also, do not ask me the same question multiple times. Either you have a horrible memory or are trying to catch me in a lie. I do not respect your stupidity or you trying to insult my intelligence. We don't know each other so let's keep it casual. I am Baliwala. My height and weight are, ah fuck it. That is all.
Below is an extreme example, but ladies, it gives you a gist of what NOT to say to a guy or anybody else during your first conversation. I don't know what type of dimwits you deal with, but if you try and act like you're better than and iPhone10, I will put you in your place, babygirl.
If that's an example of a bad convo....then why don't you show us an example of a good convo...
ReplyDeleteLol I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark and say that you believe that's a normal way to proceed during the first time you communicate with somebody. To each their own, but if you want an example just use common sense.
ReplyDeleteActually I don't. Hence why I was ignorantly asking what you would consider a good convo. My common sense differs from yours sweets...so what would probably be sensible to me... wouldn't be sensible to you...
ReplyDeleteI understand where you're coming from, sweet cheeks. A good conversation would consist of some personal questions that do not dig too deep. Look at that girl. She was speaking to me as if I were a perspective suitor. Talk about general things, such as movies, music, cultural similarities, or even about how your day went. Weekend plans? Age, location. Stuff that normal people speak about.
ReplyDeleteLMAO at your responses!!..What kind of ppl do you talk to/add on FB?!..I'm gonna side with Bali on this one cuz its pretty annoying when ppl bring up religion into a conversation and then try to bash you based on what they perceive to be right or wrong..
ReplyDeleteYeah, definitely NOT an example of a normal first time conversation with anyone, not just the opposite sex. She's off her friggin rocker.
ReplyDeleteP.S. First time stumbling upon your blog - great posts!
Thanks for the compliment.
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